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Learn moreEveryone hears about that person who is “in the right place at the right time.” Maybe you know someone who seems to be that person all of the time. We have those friends who walk right into the perfect job and achieve the right promotions as if they have a crystal pointing them in the right direction. They get awarded the best projects and their presentations get praise and standing ovations from the special guests who showed up to hear them. How do they do that?
It’s not fate or a great gene pool. It’s not an accident. It’s not even a lucky star. People who enjoy consistent success know what it takes to make great opportunities happen. Change a few habits and people might be wondering how you get so many opportunities, too.
It’s true. You don’t need luck if you can make things happen; you need strategy. Simply stated, strategy is a realistic plan to move forward by taking advantage of the opportunities that suit your unique abilities. It’s a matter of having control. It takes time and some attention, but buying a lottery ticket takes that and money, too.
Want to make good things happen for you? Here are seven habits that make great opportunities happen.
1. Pay attention
Value curiosity and collect information. Make a habit of interacting with your environment. Notice things that happen around you. People who notice things know more than people who don’t.
Develop a habit of paying attention. You’ll grow as a person and you’ll become a natural resource to the people who work with you. It will become natural for them to think of you when new opportunities happen.
2. Think of your work as important
No matter how dull, uninteresting, or seemingly useless the project, assume a higher purpose is driving it. Bring your best talents and most dedicated attitude to it. What you think changes how you feel and what you do. People will respond to the importance you place on the work that you’re executing. Develop a habit of honoring your work. People will place more value on the work you do and start to look for opportunities where they might use your higher-level abilities.
3. Be aware of the potential of your impact
The way you look, the smile you give, the way you answer on your cellphone—each causes a response in someone you might never be told. Everything you do has an impact. When you make decisions, think them through to understand how they will affect other people. Develop a habit of considering how your actions affect the people around you. People will see that you make work easier, rather than making more work for them.
4. Imagine opportunities everywhere you look
Lucky people know that opportunity is always present. Look for ideas and trends that match your interests and your skill set. Bend and twist those ideas to make them uniquely yours. Develop a habit of looking at everything to see how you might improve it—how you’ll make it more fun, faster, cooler, friendlier, easier, quieter, more musical, lighter, more romantic, more exciting, more inviting, more anything. Choose the opportunities that benefit other people and they will support your offer to take advantage of an opportunity.
5. Make yourself a magnet for jobs you do well
Be generous offering your help and counsel. When people help you, suggest your best skills as a way you might return the favors. Be on alert for the tiniest ways to match your best work with what the people around you might be doing. Talk about your favorite projects. Develop a habit of letting people know how much you love doing what you do well. People get impressed by folks who love their work and want to help.
6. Count and record the opportunities that suit you
Small ideas and opportunities have a way of getting bigger. Research shows that things we watch and measure get bigger and more plentiful. Develop a habit of attending to what suits you. People will notice that you record ideas and opportunities. They’ll start listening and looking to find more. Soon you’ll have a network of people who are offering you ideas they’ve collected for you.
7. Decide
When an opportunity is set before you, don’t hesitate. Take the opportunity and use it to grow the skills that got you that far. You know which opportunities fit your interests and skills and which don’t. Develop a habit of taking on new opportunities as a way of growing. Be clear that you’ll always be noticing and learning and people will feel secure in offering you opportunities that grow with you.
So if you want to be the lucky someone, you can make great opportunities happen. Develop the seven habits that will get you seeing opportunities and other people seeing you. Once you start, you might be surprised who starts pitching in to help you.
Great post. It's always the simple things that work the best. There are far too many complicated ideas promising to be a silver bullet for all problems. Thanks for sticking to common sense.
A solidly and highly motivating read Liz. Thank you.
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This post is worth saving, reading and re-reading a few times. Placing an importance on the work you do is powerful and those around you see that. I think a good word that supports these habits or a culmination of these habits is "faithfulness". Are you someone others around you can count on? Are you fluid to the atmosphere around you or must everything and everybody fit your mold? Enjoyed it Liz...
Thanks, Jacob!I think of that as commitment to ourselves and each other. But I like your word "faith-fulness" It's a lovely way to look at it. :)
Excellent post....every one of those suggestions are powerful AND effective. Thank you for giving us a gentle reminder on how we CAN make opportunities happen....
Not that I can speak from any sense of expertise, but #7 is huge. I can't tell you how many people don't jump into an opportunity, especially after thinking about it. All that thinking will do is convince you not to do it. While in college, my classmates thought I was crazy for one very simple reason: I was willing to indulge in my curiosity and try new things. (This has its limits, of course). I would take a philosophy class, mathematics class, or any other class that piqued my curiosity just because it sounded interesting. What did my major have to do with anything, anyway?It helps to love learning and be comfortable with not knowing. In fact, I'm almost thrilled when I find myself not knowing something--it means that I have an opportunity.
Hi Shad ...You're right! Decide means to kill off all other options. Often to be willing to jump is what will open up opportunities for you. :) It's worked for me too. :)
Fantastic advice, Liz. You're right - people that have good things come their way aren't lucky, they're smart and innovative. If you want something, you have to work hard to make it happen. And, once you have one small achievement, it's amazing how things tend to snowball from there. You just have to get started somewhere.
Hi Laura, So much of getting where we're going is knowing where we want to get and then paying attention to what will help us get there. You're so right about that. :)
Great suggestions - I'm going to pin this on the wall and point at it often.
Louise,I'm delighted that you find it useful. I appreciate your comment! :)
I think it is a cool set of rules to follow many should try to keep up with these tips since the web is changing You know
Wonderful post - very reminiscent of the chapter on shaping serendipity in our recent book The Power of Pull - people have significant ability to shape the number and quality of unexpected and valuable encounters by the choices they make every day
I love this post! My husband and I were just talking about the "lucky break" that landed me my first speaking gig. And I worked hard, did great work, and turned that single opportunity into multiple years and clients and freelance gigs, etc. It wasn't a "lucky" break in that it came out of the blue - it was someone I'd been networking with, talking with, had suggested myself for a couple different topics, and helped her a lot with the first conference behind-the-scenes. Like you said - when you reach out to help others, and you prove your worth, they remember that! I'll always be grateful that she gave me a chance to show what I can do - but at the same time, I had to do something of note. Something that people would remember and want to see more of. So I did. I love that you mention "lucky" and then MAKING those great opportunities happen in the last paragraph. Far too many people see it as an either/or when it usually a both/and. Fabulous post.
Hi Ang!Yeah, when it comes down to it, it's not who you know ... it's who knows what you can do and trusts you to do it!
This is a great list. I especially like #1 and #7.
thanks for a great list Liz...
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Erich Lagasse 3 months ago
This is a great article because any one can use some extra help. I think being curious is extremely important to help you understand different ideas, and therefore be ready for new opportunities. We published a review http://academy.justjobs.com/cultivate-a-strong-sense-of-doubt where we point out the reasons why it's important to develop a healthy sense of doubt, and how to do so. I hope it's useful. - Erich