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Never Sell Anything Again—And Watch Your Business Soar

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June 20, 2011

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I pity the small businesses that try to sell their products or services only through features and benefits. They think that hard sales tactics like cold calling or deep price discounting actually still work and are a solid way to build their business. They keep trying to sell to the same old prospects until they become so unresponsive that they are lost on how to find additional business.

Sales, in the traditional sense, is dead. In fact, trying to sell to prospects only breaks down our confidence and make us feel bad about our company. When a prospect says no to our product or service, we think they are saying no to us personally. We hate it. We feel the sting and it makes us reluctant to try it over and over again.

I learned a long time ago from Sander Selling Systems that the formula for people buying is actually very simple. Customers buy when:

1. They are in pain.

2. They have the money to solve that pain.

As a small business owner, the first task is to be able to describe the pain that your company solves and identify who has the money to solve that pain. In fact, this should be practiced as your “elevator speech."

The next step is to forget the “S” word. Now learn the “R” word: relationships. Relationships are the key to growing your company and can bring sales to you almost effortlessly. This is because we actually can’t sell anything to anyone. We just need to be there when people are ready to buy. This is why consistent marketing is so important. You need to continually remind people what you do and how you help others. When they have a problem you can solve (and the money to solve it), they will naturally buy from you. They may even know someone else that has the same pain and make a connection.

Don't waste your time by chasing the people that long ago decided not to buy from you. These are the same people that have stopped returning your phone calls or e-mail inquiries months ago. Remember, every prospect needs to continually qualify themselves for it to be worth your time in the sales process. As a result, the only way to grow your company over the long term is to keep investing in building trusted relationships. This is done by implementing a systematic method for "staying in touch" with people over a long period of time.

Three simple methods for doing this are:

  1. Use CRM software such as HighRise, Salesforce, or Goldmine to know when to periodically contact people (monthly or quarterly). Any simple reminder system that can capture information can be effective.
  2. Consistently reach out to people through phone, e-mail or snail mail. This is done not by selling them anything, but by giving them something of value they can use in their business. This can be a person they should meet, a lead, a resource article or a helpful website.
  3. Use social media to “Like” or “Retweet” their comments or content. They will think of you for an instant and remember the value you bring.

Vow never to sell again. Think building relationships. It works every time.

What do you think?

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  • DAVID BAL 9 months ago

    DAVID BAL

    You've got the formulae down pat. Adding the, "if they have money" kicker into the formulae brings it up to the current climate. The tools are nice to have, but the best tool is yourself and the thing to work on is "patience."New business owners lurch towards the jugular and that turns prospects off.http://www.signsnowmillcreek.com/home/signs-by-industry/starting-a-business.html

  • Barry Moltz 10 months ago

    Barry Moltz

    @Tom- I guess avoid pain is solving pain? What do you think?

  • Barry Moltz 11 months ago

    Barry Moltz

    @Mark- Thanks for the comments!

  • Barry Moltz 11 months ago

    Barry Moltz

    @Ryan- thank you!

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  • Barry Moltz 11 months ago

    Barry Moltz

    @Kevin- point well taken. Some CRM can be complicated....have you tried www.highrisehq.com ?

  • Kevin Horne 11 months ago

    Kevin Horne

    when did "use CRM software" become a "simple method" ?

  • Barry Moltz 11 months ago

    Barry Moltz

    @David Balance is key. Most people think that you can turn on and off your marketing effort but it really is a long term approach that wins!

  • Barry Moltz 11 months ago

    Barry Moltz

    @Russell- thanks- we do need to keep in mind giving value the customers actually want not what we think they need

  • David Wagner 11 months ago

    David Wagner

    I agree you certainly can over-sell or beat the drum too much and people will turn away. What you stated on how to sell/present your products or develop relationships has been around a long time. Top sales persons/companies have been developing relationships as a way to be successful for years. However, at some point you must sell (outline your products/services) and ask for business professionally. Finding qualified buyers has always been the challenge, it just happens that tools like CRMs and social media doors just allow you track and broadcast more openly. To be honest, I am turned offer by too much drum beating lately on social media. Finding the right balance is really the key.

  • Barry Moltz 11 months ago

    Barry Moltz

    @Ben thanks Ben

  • Ben Barber 11 months ago

    Ben Barber

    Barry,As a Sandler graduate myself, I find your points right on. Like anything, mastering them requires constant practice, just as any muscle only grows with regular exercise and quickly shrinks away when not used.Some time ago, we had the opportunity of exploring doing business together. Though we ultimately did not complete a business transaction, the relationship we created continues to provide value precisely because of the points you share and consistently practice. In fact, yours is one of the only business strategy emails I always stop to read. They provide great value to share with others during my daily conversations with colleagues and clients.Looking forward to more great articles,Ben BarberCollege Planning Partnerswww.MyCollegePlanningPartner.com

  • Barry Moltz 11 months ago

    Barry Moltz

    @mia - fantastic advice! I can figure it all out even with the ***

  • Barry Moltz 11 months ago

    Barry Moltz

    @drewry thanks for the comment

  • Barry Moltz 11 months ago

    Barry Moltz

    @becky that is a great addition - thank you!

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