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Start learning nowRecently, a colleague was lamenting the lack of etiquette he deals with on a daily basis.
“You would not believe how some of these people speak and act,” he said of salespeople at businesses he frequents. “They don’t know how to answer the phone, they text while talking to you, and when you walk in, they don’t greet you appropriately. They don’t even seem to know how to say ‘please’ and ‘thank you.’”
Do I need to mention that he is in his 50s and he was mostly referring to younger workers? No, I don’t think I do. But it is valid nonetheless. And I must say, I share some of his concern.
And so, after speaking with some etiquette experts, I came up with the Top 10 Business Etiquette Blunders to avoid:
1. No multitasking while talking.
If you are in a face-to-face conversation with someone at work, you should not text, email or answer unimportant calls.
2. Take off the headphones.
Unless you can do your work by yourself, ditch the headphones – especially in halls and other public places.
3. Avoid being too casual.
Yes, we are living in a far more casual work environment than a decade ago, but casual is not the same as sloppy. Your team needs to know what is and is not appropriate dress. What does ‘business casual’ mean at your workplace?
Additionally, casual dress can lead to a casual attitude. That can be good, but make sure your employees remember that they are at work, not home. The rules are different.
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4. Don’t cause cubicle claustrophobia.
People need their space, especially when they work in an ill-defined cubicle situation. Grant them their privacy. Knock before entering their cubicle. Don’t eavesdrop on their calls. Avoid peeking into their area. Don’t snoop.
5. Answer the phones respectfully.
Your receptionist is vital to your brand. As they say, you don’t get a second chance to make a great first impression, and that often comes from your receptionist. Help them help you.
6. Remember, ‘please’ and ‘thank you’ are the magic words.
Do you remember that childhood song? We used to sing it to our kids. Today we need to sing it to our employees. When customers call, they should not be thanking you, you should be thanking them.
Consider having a best practices meeting where everyone is reminded of the importance of using the magic words – with each other, and especially the public.
7. Institute email rules.
Email is now the dominant form of business communication and should be treated as such. Some uniform policies help everyone stay on track.
8. Treat guests like guests.
Someone who walks into your shop should be treated like the guest they are. They are not a pain, bother or annoyance.
9. Respect punctuality.
Ten people should not have to wait to start a meeting just because one person hasn’t learned how to be on time. I once worked at a place where the meeting room door was locked one minute after the meeting began. Harsh? Sure. But people were rarely late to those meetings.
10. Don’t eat other’s food.
Their food is their food. And while you are at it, clean up after yourself, don’t leave spoiled food in the fridge, and repay people when you borrow a buck to buy a soda.
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The thing that is most offensive to me in dealing with people on the phone is when the person I'm speaking with hangs up without saying goodbye. The same is true when they leave a message. It makes it seem like they are trying to leave the impression that they are superior to me, and whether they are or not, it is still extremely rude.
Love this! I teach my employees and kids the importance of respect and good ettiquette all the time...Great points!
I am just getting to my Open Forum Updates and hope I am not too late to comment. One topic you did not cover is dining with prospective employers, employees and/or customers. I was recently asked to participate in the search for a business leader to fill an open board position at a prestigious national organization. After each interview, the search committee asked the prospect to stay for lunch. The last individual we met with, while great on paper, had absolutely terrible table manners. Not only did he wipe each course’s plate clean with a buttered roll, he pushed bits of food onto his fork with his finger, and then licked his finger. Drinking from the wrong water glass and not knowing which fork or knife to use were *** faux pas in comparison. My observations may be old fashioned and unduly judgmental, but manners do matter. I have a great little handbook that is now out of print—“manners in a minute.” It’s worth the read. If anyone wants to know more, they can email me, they can reach me at susan@trimsunlimited.com
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@Boris Fowler - Good point. Something parents should keep in mind. Childhood is on-the-job training for life.
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On Please and Thank You - I don't know exactly where I got the habit, but I'm a please and thank you guy. I even hear myself saying, "Yes, please" when offered things.
I'm amazed at how many compliments it yields. Of course, I don't demur; but I do say thank you.
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On Others' Food - The tragedy of the commons tells us a lot about a company (or an organization, or a family, or a society) and its people. The things you can learn about people in this sort of situation where they let their guard down is why I'm a proponent of long hiring periods and/or trial employment periods.
To help your children succeed in their professional careers, high school age is an good time to discuss with them what is appropriate to wear to business functions and casuals functions attended by your coworkers. Just because the dress code of a party is termed casual doesn't mean you should wear the clothes you would wear to a party with your own friends. Don't wear clothes that have rude sayings on them or designs that may be offensive. If there is a question in your mind, don't wear it. Whether elegant or casual, don't show too much cleavage or wear skirts or shorts that don't cover enough. If your grandmother wouldn't approve, don't wear it to a function where co-workers and business associates are present. Make sure your spouse or guest passes inspection as well. Although it may not seem fair, you are judged by the company you keep. When you extend the invitation, tell your guest what the dress code is and if you think it is unclear, make a suggestion.
Here's another one, aside from learning to say "please & thank you"....also learn to say "you are welcome". In my return trips to the States, I notice in businesses, that when I say "thanks or thank you", the person then says something like "Yep, not a problem or un-huh". Maybe I'm old fashioned, but that screams unprofessional.
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Wise Bread says: taking the time to do email right is just one way to avoid email blunders."
I have no idea of what 'right' is by according to your point of view.
Standard company headings and footings should be used in all company related email. Every email should represent the company even before the employee starts writing it. The rest is all a result of how each person (age irrelevant) decides to treat those they deal with. They know right from wrong but either choose to or not to do so.
This really comes down to the habits that are created early in life. It is unwise and stupid to assume that a college frat boy (generalization, I know) who is unkept and rude will, on the day of his graduation, instantly grow up and become a model employee.
If we are not taking the time to enforce these manners at home or at school, then we cannot expect to see them in the workplace. It really is a matter of common sense and doing what is right.
Most of the time it takes no extra time or effort to be polite. It's just a matter of habit. One of my pet peeves is having a meal with someone who honestly doesn't realize they're talking with food in their mouth. Eeeewww! Everybody please sit down to dinner with your children regularly and help them learn. I'm glad to teach them but it's embarasing for them to find out for the first time in their lives what's proper when they are in high school.
I may be one of those younger workers — but I've encountered plenty of etiquette blunders from older workers myself. It's definitely not just an age thing. One of my pet peeves is email etiquette: taking the time to do email right is just one way to avoid email blunders.
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Todd Gamber 6 months ago
Growing up with very traditional parents, I was constantly taught the value of etiquette. My mom was so emphatic about etiquette that she once sent a book on etiquette to a relative who didn't write a thank you note for a wedding gift. I've found that etiquette has served me well in my career because it's becoming more and more rare. But, I've noticed that etiquette appeals more to those who are older more than those who are younger.